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Brāv Annual Membership

Benefits:
• Mediation trainings and webinars
• Publishing opportunities and mentions in major publications
• Use of platform to kick start your career as mediator and practice mediation
• Access to exclusive resources for members
• Regular discussions on ADR trending topics
• Early access to Global Brāv’s Event – including Brāv’s Annual Event, study tours and cruises
• Become part of fastest growing global network of Neutrals
• Provide support to set up a Mediation Clinic in schools, colleges and communities
• Regular skill upgrading sessions
• Membership discounts
And many more resourceful perks

Brāv Membership Fees

____ Professional ($200 USD): https://www.paypal.me/brav1/230

____ Student ($55 USD) – Discount $20 = $35 : https://www.paypal.me/brav1/36

____ Organizational ($1,690 USD): https://www.paypal.me/brav1/1720

(Total = Membership fee + Processing fees as applicable)

Last date to avail discounted membership for students is January 31, 2018.

As a Brāv member, you’re invited to be part of the development of the global profession by joining Brāv Partners, the worldwide association of professional conflict managers associations.

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#AlbertSquareMediation – Technology – curse, comfort or both?

Brav-LogoLife in the twenty-first century is, for most of us living in the Western World, pretty amazing. Unlike our predecessors we have a plethora of technology at our disposal with modern day wonders such as mobile phones and the internet have major impacts on our daily lives. Science fiction made science fact one might say, and this is all fantastic. Except, of course, when they go wrong. Then we realise just how dependant we are on complicated boxes of electronica and can flounder without them. The stress this caused can be immense, as most of us can appreciate.

I recently had the unfortunate displeasure of losing my home internet access just before the so-called ‘festive season’. Although I had officially finished work, as in I did not need to have a presence in the office or on the shop floor. I do not have the sort of work that finishes at 5 pm, and invariably always have to do some work at home. I accept this as being the way it is, although sometimes would love to have more free time. Sigh.

But I digress. So, I come home after work and find, that the internet was no more, it had ceased to be, it had departed this mortal coil, in other words it stopped working. Being a resourceful type, I know what to do: buttons were pressed, boxes were unplugged, turned off and on again, left to cool down, warm up and much more but all to no avail. Eventually I rang the so-called helpline, the computerised voice asked various questions and did its thing and assured me that all would be up and running within two days.

All as expected. Well, perhaps unsurprisingly I can assure the reader that things were most definitely not up and running after two days. Moreover, the promised text confirmation to my mobile phone did not materialise (thankfully this device was working ok and was my lifeline to the outside world). We were most definitely not amused, and so once more I contacted the helpline, a different one this time, that had a real human at the end, in some distant land. This charming person who at least initially mostly read in a monotone from a script (until I spoke to him in his language – the benefits of an eclectic education!), offered bland admonishments and a “most sincere apology” and promised to look into this personally. Sure enough, the next day someone appeared at my front door (at the time quoted – very impressive) and some time later (two hours) order was restored to chaos, entropy was averted and my network was re-born.

During this slightly fraught time it was most heartening that lovely colleagues, friends and partners (well, only one of the latter) offered help and support, and at least I had several options to fall back on were network disruptions to continue. I can’t help but think that the Beatles got it right (and not for the first time) when one of them, the one whose name begins with the letter ‘R’ sang. “I get by with a little help from my friends”.

This got me thinking about many things, good and bad and not necessarily about amazingly brilliant sixties popular beat combos. While technological marvels such as mobile phones and the internet are wonderful when they work, when they don’t problems arise of a nature and degree unimaginable in the good old days when such things were firmly in the realm of fantasy. I consider myself a groovy, chilled hip kind of guy, but I have to admit that even I was starting to get concerned as the mountain of stuff I needed the internet for (including writing blogs, funnily enough) was far from getting done and the clock was ticking. Obviously the world has to stop during the ‘festive season’ and my deadlines for various things were fixed in stone, immutable, unchangeable and if not done before the world stopped for a certain special day then the fate of the Western World would be sealed. I exaggerate, obviously, but I did have lots of things to do, and not being able to do them while I had a modicum of that most precious resource of free time, was rather frustrating.

I rather suspect that when things go wrong, as they often do in life, we often react without thinking, and may say and do things we regret. This leads to stress, more problems and often unwanted consequences, and invariably it is better to wait, think, reflect and cogitate before saying or doing something we regret. For once said and done it cannot be retracted and sorting out a bigger mess is far harder than dealing with a smaller, solvable one. I know that in my clinical work, as a doctor, my role was often more that of a diplomat than a doctor. Being called to resolve difficult situations necessitated using conflict resolution techniques early, applying reflective practice techniques (basically thinking carefully before reacting), keeping calm, and maintaining one’s cool so that things got sorted, peace could break out and life could go on. Conflicts of various sorts arise frequently in hospitals, and addressing these before they could fester and worsen was something I had to deal with a lot of the time, and certainly made the routine clinical work seem simple in comparison – well, almost.

Anyway, my own holiday saga was finally resolved without the need for violence or bloodshed, the relief of being able to get on with things and access emails and the internet was wonderful (really) and I even managed to get all my work done without too much angst – only one late night was needed and the festive season turned out to be just that. Oddly, the delay had no major consequences and frankly none were the wiser. So all was well that ended well. The moral of the story is that things can and will go wrong and when they do, try not to lose your head, and that all is not lost. – really. If you find that you somehow say or do the wrong thing and are facing seemingly insurmountable odds, there are ways of resolving such disputes. Either consult a doctor (err, perhaps not as your first option and please not this particular doctor) or better yet, a highly skilled mediator from #AlbertSquareMediation.

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Buddy’s Point to Ponder Christmas cheer, oh, Christmas cheer!

 

Christmas cheer, oh, Christmas cheer. Brav-LogoCan you feel it, can you see it, can you know it’s real?

Faith is the key for you and me, God’s grace is the true meaning I feel.

There is no greater love than that of the Father, who gave his only son to us on this day so long ago, to love us, to teach us, and to show us that making a sacrifice for the good of all is the greatest gift!

We can never hope to repay that gift. We can only live by Christ’s words (off the top of my head): “Love the Lord thy God with all your heart and soul; And love thy neighbor as you love God. For these are the Great Commandments. Obey these, and all good things shall follow you, all the days of your life!”

Blessings on this wonderful birthday of our Christ, and may the gifts we have received from his hand bear us good tidings throughout the coming New Year!

Please share or forward as you will on this most joyous

 

 

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Palestinian Leader: UN Should Replace U.S. as Peace Mediator

Brav-LogoPalestinian President Mahmoud Abbas on Wednesday said the United Nations should replace the United States as a peace mediator between Israeli and Palestinian officials. Abbas’ comments come as the Trump administration inflamed tensions in the region by designating Jerusalem as the capital of Israel. The Trump administration has been pushing for successful peace negotiations in the Middle East, and the recognition of Jerusalem as Israel’s capital threatens to imperil its prospects because most world leaders in the region condemned the decision